Women Drivers … Men Drivers!!??

This one post caches some of the most sincere and defying statements I ever have heard of. Well not once, not twice but a million zillion times, this particular topic has trickled me and has had a very bad, scandalizing effect on me!!


"Women are Bad, senseless Drivers"!!!!

How true is it?
Every time I hear this particular statement, I just can’t stop thinking about... The main agenda behind the statement! Why would a sensible man ever say that! I mean doesn’t he understand English!?

There is a wide difference between saying "All Women are bad drivers" or "A particular woman is a bad driver"!

How can ‘this’ category of MEN... generalize this Goliath subject?

It is rightly said, Some Men in this world could never ever bear the brunt of calling the women a superior sex even in one field!!! I mean it!

Delhi is a city with innumerable cabs and cabdrivers. Point to be noted here - All are men drivers! If anyone has seen the delhite’s driving, h/she will never ever forget it! :) Thats cent % true! ;)

Most (Almost all) of the accidents that occur in this city ... MEN Drivers! Still ‘these category’ of MEN have the nerves to talk wrongly about other sex's.

I myself have been driving on the roads of the city for almost 5 years now and I certainly feel hateful and scornful when guys make faces and give disgusting looks to me! They even point fingers! How sickening that could be?
I'll say this one Incident... Darn!! I actually parked my car aside and had a hearty laugh after this whole Incident!

Once while driving ... glued to my lane... I saw a bike walah who was just ahead of me slowly n slowly drifting towards my lane from his. I horned and he went back onto his lane... then while I was crossing him, he again started coming onto my lane... Slight difference else would definitely have had a minor accident there!!

That guy was either drunk or sleeping for sure! Anyhow I dint bother... I drove ahead!! After covering a short distance I saw the biker heading towards  me and drove right next to my car and gesticulated me to lower down the window pane. I did... he was like " Madam... Dhyaan se drive kia karo ... jaldi kis baat ki hai aapko"... I just gave him an ashtonished ‘ulta chor kotwal ko daante’ look and didn’t bother to listen to him. Hence just raced my car a bit!! ... I was wondering with what logic he came up to tell me this piece of crap!!!!!! I just smiled derisively...

This guy had all the freaking time in this world to actually race his bike - match up my car's speed - then with one hand on bike and other gesticulating me to lower down the window - shouting at the top of his voice just to tell me my "so-called" "never-happened" fault?????!!!

What on Earth did he think he was doing???

He was a fool and that too with an ultimate sense of humor!!!

The only question that blazed my mind at that moment was "what if I was a guy!?" This biker would have never even dared to step up to me to tell his piece of crap! He would have simply minded his own business! no reaction there!! Its become’s the Brother-Hood!

Also, Innumerable times, during parking at the malls or places like, the parking-guards ask me for the keys so that he can maneuver the car into the slot or back-out!! Why??? Who gives them the right? I can very well do it on my own!

How many times the truck-drivers switch the headlights of the truck on/off on seeing that the car ahead of them is being driven by a Lady! Shucks!!
How many times the guys call us names while driving by us?
How many times, while in a cab or any other car we (gurls) hear statements as ‘ye tho pakka ladki chala rahi hogi!’

I myself being a cautious driver, I know how gud I can drive!
I mean if a woman driver overtakes a man-driver's car ... shez eyed on, given disgusted and scornful looks! why? Had it been a Guy instead of a Woman... huh!

Well...this part especially goes out to the gurls/women ... never ever be scared or frightened or feel low on such comments! ...don’t loose your self-confidence ~ I know if you are a sensible driver you entirely understand what I mean here!

Anyways to sum it up, No wonder there are guys who are very good drivers whose maneuverability skills might be Excellent, but then there are women drivers too whose skill sets match those of Men!
On the contrary, there are guys who are senseless, wretched drivers and so there are women!

AND MEN MUST ACCEPT BOTH FACTS!! They Better Do!!!!

And I think that its high time when people/men realize & not for just the sake of ringing bells that women are at par with men in every field. The average Indian male still can’t accept the fact that ‘the second sex’ too has become educated.

If you can think on Modern Lines… well then apply them too in REAL Life for better!

This post wasn’t about debating on "Whose d Stronger Sex?" but on "We are all Humans and hence Be Sensible!! " :-)

Tum aur Main ..

tum raag aur main sur
tum dhadkan aur main sansein
tum awaaz aur main bol
tum khuda aur main ek rasool
tum chandrama aur main chandani
tum jal aur main sheetalta
tum sanjeev aur main supriya
tum sajan aur main sajani
tum suman aur main sudha
tum tarana aur main saaz
tum neend aur main sukoon
tum sher aur main ghazal
tum satyajit aur main satya
tum mere aur main tumhari
tum jugnu aur main roshni
tum raat aur main swadha
tum swaha aur main suvimal
tum swapn aur main swapnil
tum samundar aur main nadi
tum vyom aur main nakshatra
tum paed aur main chhaya
tum lal aur main shwet
tum chah aur main tumhari chahat
tum chumban aur main ehsaas
tum sindoor aur main rishta
tum main aur main tum



[ rasool - angel; sanjeev- loved; supriya-much loved; suman-phool; sudha-nectar;
satyajit-person married to truth; swadha-beauty; swaha-wife of agni(pure);
suvimal-purity; vyom-sky ]

[Few lines of this were written by me during schooltimes, just added few more now :) ]

Carom ..

Carom (4 pockets + coins ( x black + x white) + 1 Queen + 3 Players + 1 YOU)

Last year on the occasion of "The Good Winning over the Evil/Bad" i.e. Diwali, my company organized Sport events - Carom, TT, Cards etc.

CAROM BEING MY FAVOURITE INDOOR SPORT, I nominated myself for the Doubles!

My partner and me (Doubles) were made to play with various contenders (teams), Well did reach the Semi-Finals.. yayy!


I realized something!

All the teams I was playing with, In the END had the same strategy as We had - To Win The Game!

But.. Difference lie when it came to "How to Win the Game"!!

My Partner and I intended to get as many coins into the pockets as we can. Simple eh!

But there were few teams which had a different way of playing the Game (which truly speakin I never thought of)

These teams "How to Win the Game" was based on the "Architecture of blocking" as many pockets as they can with their coins so that the other team doesn't get a pocket free to Goal/ even to strike !! .... Amazing!

[For those who are unaware of the second concept: well its like blocking the surrounding space of the crease (2 parallel lines) from where you take the strike!!... so that you are left with no space to Actually take the STRIKE!! ... AND also blocking the surroundings of the pockets ..so that even if the STRIKER manages to take a STRIKE, it doesn’t end up the in the pocket ...WORST.. The Other Team’s coin may end up in the pocket!! ahhh... I Hate that!! :( ]

Well, to first reaction …....awwwww .. watt the hell - I Was Stunned .... then Disturbed ... and then Amazed .... and then finally Chuckled!!

Gosh!!
If they knew the ART of blocking ....then why not ART of Goaling?? Anyhow ..skills are required in either cases! Rgt!??

Anyways, I loved this new ART!! ... naayyy ...for those who think its unfair..Well I dont think so!

Just the way ... Instant Coffee / Decoction Coffee ...end product remains same! How to make ..Different! (Tastes Different too :P)

Well..My Take..



The one's who aim only on Goaling END up the most skilled!!
How ?
Well this set of people have a clear GOAL/OBJECT in the GAME i.e THE GAME.

Face hurdles - attempt to clear the hurdles - failures seen in clearing the hurdles - sometimes succeed -sometimes don't - but in the end.... They have acquired "THE ART"

ART of " Playing "!

Now substitute

CaROm bOaRd = LiFE
pOCkETS = OuR GoAlS
QUeEn = lUcK
CoInS = ThE DeCiSiOnS We tAke
cOiNs BlOckiNg = OtHeR's DeCiSiOnS
STriKeRs = oNE yOu n oThErS ....jUsT OtHeRs!!

Kyun……....

Koun hun main?
Kyun hun main?
Kya hai meri pehchaan……………………………...


Kyun mujhe tumhara hi intezaar hai?

Kyun tum mere har soch ki shuruat ho
Kyun tum mere khwabon main bas jatey ho
Kyun tum meri rooh main samaye huye ho
Kyun tum mujhe madhosh kar jatey ho
Kyun tum meri dhadkan bane hue ho
Kyun tum meri sanson ko uljha jate ho

Kyun main tumhe hi itna chahun?

Kyun tum mujhe mere itne kareeb lagte ho
Kabhi chedh jatey ho, kabhi ojhal ho jate ho
Kabhi meri dabi muskurahat ban jate ho
Kabhi dil main meethey dard de jate ho
Kabhi aankhon main nami bankar thehar jatey ho
tho kabhi sailaab bankar beh jate ho
Kabhi cheekh banke nikal aate ho
tho kabhi bin-ashq aankhon main sui-si-chuban de jate ho...

Kyun tum meri aadat ban gaye ho?

Kyun tum mujhe dikhai nahi dete
Kyun tum mujhe tadpate ho
Kyun tum mere har khayal main ho
Kyun tum hi meri pehli yaad ho
Kyun tum hi meri jeene ki chah ho

Koun ho tum? Kyun tum meri hasrat ho?

Kyun tumhe chune ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhe paane ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare bahon main bikhar jane ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare kandhe sir rakhe sone ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhe mehsoos karne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhari aankhon main zindagi guzarne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare saamne dabe raaz kholne ka mann kare ..
Kyun ye dil tumhare chumban ka pyaasa rahe ..
Kyun dil aaghosh main tumhari rone ko tarasa kare ..
Kyun tumhare bahon main dum todne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare ishq main fanaa hone ko mann kare?

Kyuuuuun………

Koun ho tum? kyun ho tum?
Kyun tum meri zindagi bane hue ho?
Kyun tum mujhse mujhe loot rahe ho?
Kya mera koi astitv nahi?
Kya meri koi pehchaan nahi???

ya.....


KYA "TUM" HI MERI PEHCHAAN HO?!!

Tum hi meri har soch ka anth ho!

Aandhi ...

Kyun dil main reh-reh kar ik kook si uthti hai
ye kiski kami hai jo humne loot-ti rehti hai
saans leti hun tho zakhmo ko hawa lagti hai
aankhon se baraste ashq un zakhmo ko bharne nahi deti hai

hansi gunaah si lagti hai
Dard use Qusoor-waar tehrati hai

kaisa ye aalam hai
kaisi ye hayaat hai
har soch par ek sawaal hai..
sawaalon ke aandhi main doobi har raat hai….

Aisi bebasi ke aalam mai
kaise khudh par aitbaar karen..
kahan jayen..
fariyaad karen bhi tho kisse karen...

Darr lagta hai ab khudh se
jab tanha paate hain khudh ko
Is gham-zadah halaat main
kahin kho na baithen hum khudh ko....

Pehchaan......

aye khuda,mujhe ye bata..
kyun hum taaron ki aas na karen..
kyun hum chaand ko na dekhey..
kyun ye aasman sab kuch hotey huye bhi tanha sa lage...

hum tho keh na paaye ..
tumhi keh do ..
aasman lage hai humein bahot pyaraa ..
gar na ho tho kahan samaye sitara ..
chand ne chandni bikheri huyi hai ..
phir bhi anjaan bane-baithe hain ye aasman aur sitara..
aur jab chand na ho tho yahin bane ek dooje ka nazara........

Intezaar!

Koun kisko dil main jagah deta hai..
paed bhi sookhey pattey gira deta hai..
Waakif hain hum duniya ke riwaazon se...
Dil bhar jaye tho har koi bhula deta hai....
......kambhakhat dil hai jo aas hi nahi chodhta...
aane walon ko jaana bhi hota hai ...
phir bhi har mod pe uska intezaar karta hai...
....kehta hai Intezaar hi ISHQ ka doosra naam hota hai...........

LOVE N REGRETS (Do they go hand-in-hand ??...)

Well I have been thinking lately...not that I don't think otherwise...

But this one conversation my sakhi's had on one of the get-together's....It disturbed me ... :(


Well, some questions still playing hide n seek inside my mind .... :o

Is it a Gud practice to regret your Past?
Isnt it so, that Regretting about your past is like Insulting Your self at some point of time in Life??
Also The worst part, Why is that people compare their past with their present? Is that to Convince/Satisfy
themselves with the present(that they are livingin) or serious deadly happiness or just that they have to
contribute something on the matter?

Well All the statements above can appeal in different ways to different people!! :) ...so Excuse my thoughts!!

PEOPLE REGRETTING THEIR PAST RELATIONSHIPS ..... !!!...hummm.....

I find it quite amusing...rather disturbing!! :(

I guess whatever One gives-in for any relationship is the best one could have given at that very moment and
the one actually enjoyed doing so!! Isn't it so?

It hurts me when I see people calling their past relationships a mistake and henceforth Insulting it!

I know worst things might have happened until/unless really really worst...

Didn't that relationship at that point of time purify your senses,made you feel-the unfelt,made u say-
the unsaid,made u do-the never-done,made you see-the unseen??

Even Mother Nature doesn't regret of its Disasters..!!
Disasters are all a part of Mother Nature :) :)

Similar to our Sorrows, Pains, Past, Present are to our life !...These provide us an Identity!

Past tell us -What-we-are!
Present gives a chance to -What-we-can-be!
Future presents of -What-we-want-to-be!

Well in that Get-Together, my old pals were present, some married....well some in this category were going ga-ga over their hubbies and the life that THEIR HUBBIES have bestowed on them....mostly comparing their ex's with them!!.... ;) :)

Sweethearts ...what i would say is....By comparing you'v already done a Disaster there!!....Its just not worth it !! :) :)

I heard of statements like:
"Thank God! It ended! I'm so happy now!!" .... yea rgt!! :)
"I Thank my parents for actaully getting me out of him,showing me the right direction and finding me the Suitable Boy, I wouldn't have been this much happy,i know" ... Hmmm...Gud for you Babe :)

This is the Worst I found!! :( :P
"That was mere Attraction" .......really????..think again!! :o :)
"Thank God I never crossed my limits with him" ...Thank him too sweets :)

But tell me something, if at that time in your past would you have been told that your life is gonna end in say A week.....What would you have done??....Whom would you have poured on all your emotions?? Your ga-ga's "whtever" for Christ's sake!!!

You wouldn't have been to your parents (not all the time for sure)......or you wunt even bother to find your present mates with a torch for that matter!!!!......
The Only Person upon whom you wud have invested your Precious Time would have been this EX :) :)

Isn't that true??......For that would have given you eternal happiness at THAT moment :)

In Today's process of life....Each one of us needs/wants ..."ah!whtever!" a partner....a mate...a Best Friend...
Since Skool or Grad......
It’s like this Fashion!! :) Until and unless you have it....something's missing ;)

Only 10% of the new Threads exist by the end of a period of time.....and then only 3-4%....afterwards....

But I bet you enjoyed those moments with ur friends...though it might be so that you ended on a BITTER Note!!
If you claim, you dint enjoy it...then why the hell were you into it... Guess ..you were ONE of the Crowd ;)

The person might have not turned out to be the Right Guy......but the MOMENTS???..... :) :) What about them !! ??

Lastly, I would like to say,
Its Absolutely Okay to want/need someone but its more Okay if you accept him and the relationship ...... and HAVE the courage to face/admit the importance of that relationship-at that moment .....Afterwards!!! :) :)
Agree?? :) :)

[P.S. My Gurls...Forgive me if I had hurt your sentiments anywhere in this post...this was purely not intended :) :) ]

Take me to your HEART........

I have never come across a song, which would speak my heart out, but this one song actually had put words to my very Existence!!! ......This one goes out to you, My LOVE!!! :)

"Take me to your HEART"...........by MLTR :)

Hiding from the rain and snow,

Trying to forget but I wont let go,

Looking at the crowded street

Listening to my own Heart-Beat

So many people all around the world

Tell me where do I find Someone like you LOVE.....

(Chorus)

Take me to your HEART, take me to your SOUL,

Give me your hand before I'm old,

Show me what LOVE is -Haven't got a clue,

Show me that wonders can be true..

They say nothing lasts forever,

We're only here today

Love is now or never,

Bring me far away

Take me to your HEART,take me to your SOUL,

Give me your hand and hold me

Show me what LOVE is - be my guiding star,

It's easy,Take me to your HEART...

Standing on a mountain High,

Looking at the moon through a clear blue sky

I should go and see some friends,

But they don't really comprehend

Don't need too much talking without saying anything,

All I need is someone who makes me wanna SING!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKn3GGCbh_0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jjHkroW4d24

BE INSPIRED AND INSPIRE OTHERS!!

Everything has been written by the same hand.
The Alchemist

This post is for all the terrific people out there who have inspired others, by their acts!!

Be it the parents of a physically challenged son/daughter, who in spite of knowing their child's in competencies of not being able to live up to their dreams as a normal child would do, who knowing that their half the dreams for their son/daughter have been thrashed, not scoring high in exams, not making them proud of being called as father/mother of an achiever (be it sports/music etc),.....still entrusts on him/her the confidence of LIVING...INSPIRING him/her to conquer heights…..just like other kids…..and actually their kids turn out the “THE BEST”..”THE ACHIEVERS”!!!! 

Or

Parents of a child who has lived 23 years and due to fateful and tragic accident lies on bed in comma for more than a year, the pain, the hope that their child will be alright, he'll be normal, the prayers, the care that they render, the snapshot of the day they saw his bloody body in hospital, the way he is growing thin day by day, the helplessness they would feel in not being able to do anything for their love, the way they see their love's body being pierced with injections, food pipes, and what not......,the way they feed him thru the pipe that’s been drilled in his throat, the trauma, the separation, the fear of loosing him, the sleepless nights, the tension-filled days......, the hope, the faith, the desperateness.....thus INSPIRING themselves and family members…..to not-to-stop-hoping…….not-to-stop-being-positive…..

Or

A Poor peasant/worker who earns a meager amount, in spite of getting toiled in the scorching heat, working until the sun has sucked up that 1% of H2o too from his body, even at high fever-he has to work else his family would be loosing out on the only course the next day, manages to work...to get his children educated, gives up on his desires just to fulfill his children's desire, the exhaustion, the helplessness, the spirit to survive so that he could
see his kids survive, the mother working at various houses as maids, gives up to buy a new saree for herself, just for the sake her children could wear new clothes in school….thus INSPIRING the millions of peasants/workers just like them to earn and educate their children……

Or

The family whose only male member (DAD) is suffering from cancer, and as they know the fate, still tries to live up with it, seeing their dad coughing, bleeding, getting hurt,-the pain the family goes thru seeing their loved one being snatched bit by bit by the daemon(death),the helplessness…thus INSPIRING each other to live…..cope up…..

Or

The positive attitude with which a father lives his whole life, and then when he passes away, the teachings, memories, his words linger around and are remembered by his children and wife….which help them in coping up of his loss…..thinking if dad would have been here in this situation, he would have done this and that……..thus INSPIRING each other in the family…..

Or

Anyone who hasn't given up in spite of all the adversities he/she may have faced in life, and still struggling to live each and every moment on this EARTH with cruel ppl's eyes piercing thru their body's, the girl's who are abused each day when they are standing at the bus stands, or in trains, by those merciless daemon's eyes.....the women who have fought for their
rights......the widow's of many martyrs with un doubtful courage to live...the jawan's who lay their life for someone else(country) not for themselves..... INSPIRING others too to join army…..


HATTS OFF TO ALL OF YOU!!!.......People ask "where is GOD?" ......I say...."YOU ARE ALL GOD!!..HIS FORM!!!"

If you observe carefully ....the no. of people who actually don’t give up in adversities are very few....
And henceforth, I would say I have covered only a section of people, rest fall under different category's but not this one!!
For sure!!

Why people give up? Why everyday we come to hear of Suicides? Why young children (school) who haven't actually yet entered the mainstream of life still giving up so easily? Why people nowadays going more into depression?....why???

The word I found for it is "LACK OF INSPIRATION & COMPASSION"!!!!

Not money, not love, not anything!!!!....................but…….

INSPIRATION N COMPASSION
Why are we hesitant to inspire others? What are you here for on this earth if u cannot pass down the experience/knowledge gained by u over the years to others? TEACH PEOPLE…..BE INSPIRED…...N.....INSPIRE OTHERS.....BE COMPASSIONATE!!

How would you feel if you dint have anyone to guide u? advice u?
Each of us needs Each other!!! .....We are all dependent....nothing to be ashamed of.....you can’t produce until you are dependent on the other sex?....then y not respect /INSPIRE the other sex.....

Please people we are all here for some gr8 thing!!!....be it in any form…..make a person’s life by inspiring them, igniting the sparks which are lying rested…..
One can do this in any ways, TEACH ….BE COMPASSIONATE TO THEM…CONTRIBUTE IN UR OWN WAY IN THEIR LIVES…………
TOGETHER WE CAN N WE WILL BRING A DIFFERENCE!!!!

SOUL-SEARCHING….

When you possess great treasures within you, and try to tell others of them, seldom are you believed.
The Alchemist

You know whenever I think of giving up on life, rather to my circumstances , people around me - the hustle-bustle in my mind, taking the count of the innumerable failures I have encountered and with each and every thought I become successful in making myself feel more miserable, lonely, desperate and then the ultimate gush of emotions - I suddenly RISEE!!!.....

There's a always a force within me, some kind of an unknown force that keeps whispering to me "You are more. Much more than you are externally!!...Rise!!!"...

What influences me to think this way, I really don’t know, but its this voice which has kept the fire inside me burning......TO DO SOMETHING!!..WHICH I AM REALLY MEANT FOR!!...THE REAL ME!! THE SOLE PURPOSE OF ME BEING ON EARTH !! THE MISSION !!

This power within me ...rules/chucks out every bad, negative thought/air around me.....and tells me to LIVE!!!

LIVE FOR THE ALMIGHTY!!...who Created me..Sent me here on this EARTH with a purpose...

"What is that GOD wants me to do??"

"Why has he given ppl ard me who don’t understand me, always deny me, and discourage me??"

"why me???" "why me GOD???" "Why??"

And I always find the answer as "Rads!!....I give you all these tests so that you become an expert in solving them one fine day!!..just like solving problems again n again in maths will make u a master of it in the end..Cos I know your capabilities more than u think you know about urself....Trust me!!!

If I am giving you the dark nights, the emptiness........then it's me only who will give u the Sunshine, bright days...I am always there for you...cos you are my Angel, my Child, my Anu!!"

And every time this answer echoes in my ears, I suddenly become Confident, Charged Up.......and start marching towards my GOAL!!

Call this as "Soul-Searching"...or whtever....call this as insane/abnormal...huh!!...I hardly care!!

But atleast I am living for "SOMETHING"...in life.....compared to others who are living to-just - live!!!

This unleashes the spirit within me!! I know its there!! I don't try to make people take notice of it (though they will, one fine day) but just want to realize my own true self for myself.

Call it a sweet escape or a willful farsightedness; it pleases me beyond anything I have ever seen or felt. I feel a sense of exhilarating freedom from my body which I don't feel otherwise. I'm just being truthful to myself. Well, I am by all means an escapist who simply loves to get eternally lost in the creative sensations of my innermost conscience.

It makes me feel light. It makes me feel like everything I ever wanted to be but couldn't and now is the time to be that!!

I AM NOT GOING TO DISSAPOINT YOU MY LORD!!!...NOPE!!

--AnuRadha

For u… "God's favorite angel".....

To live in hearts we leave behind
Is not to die.
~Thomas Campbell


I had been thinking a lot for the past few months to resume writing, never occurred this could be one of the reasons I’ll start again. :( :)
I met a guy, in the year 2006 (MCA Batch 06-09), AMITY University. He was like any other Ordinary guy. At first sight, thanks to his physical attributes, he seemed as if someone hasblown the air out of him. Lean, dark....I remember he used to come on his dad's scooter
to college ...hahaa I used to wonder, in this age where guys would die hard to earn a bike
from their parents since anything less than that will make them feel out casted, this dude
used to come to college on his scooter to write his exams.

I hardly knew him, but yes, this guy had the charm of letting people know of his presence.
Could talk for hours for anything relating to laptops, its configuration, hardware, battery etc.
Energetic and always willing to help you, if you ever came up with a problem provided it should
be relating to any of the topics written above. ;) 
I recall when one of my friends, had a problem with her "AMITY PROVIDED HP laptop's battery", and he was the first one to give her suggestions and telling her to give it to him, so that he could get it repaired. GOD KNOWS WHAT FUN HE HAD IN THAT!!!....pata nai kya karta tha!!!...

But haan he had a wierd interest of repairing everything!!!....I used to consider him some kind of techie who loves junks related to computers.
I used to wonder looking at his group, some people on this heavenly earth are just born as bookworms.They'll just dissolve the letters of the book into their blood, and then feel elevated when rewarded with some 2 digit no.'s (of course the 2 digit number shunt be less than First Division!!!)...
I still consider them wierdosss....... heeee....jokes apart!!!..

Well actually this is the thing about this guy, never seen him tense....u know that mantra (Tension lene ka nai reee,dene kaaaa....) ..... a gay person :)
When i used to see him talking, seriously speaking not even a single word uttered from his mouth was ever registered in my mind, for he talked quiet fast.... I always had to ask him to repeat....
It was irritating...but yet....IT WAS TOTALLY "HIM".......

One more incident I recall is of our 4th sem exams. ohhh!!!...I guess that was the first time he gathered all his guts, to use a paper to cheat in exam (I guess)!!! Very unlike him....hun!!!
I was wondering before the answer sheets were given whether he would be able to succeed in what he had planned or not????!!!!!!
I could see him trying hard to mask his tension, nervous, panic with a very straight look!!!!....funny was that!!!
Either the invigilator had to be really dumb or really experienced/smart to have noticed him!!!!...

But as was destined, all of a sudden the invigilators came racing onto our room, as if they were on some kind of mission for which they would be respected and rewarded high.....(well no one bothered to give them any!!)

They came barging till they reach the end of the class ..... (where he was sitting, onto my left). As they started their monkey acts (turning the answer sheets upside down, opening up the pencil boxes as if they are looking at them for the first time in life, under the bench, here there, looking rather gazing at the student, with god knows that peculiar look, as if they themselves were confused of the main idea of being there ).
They are one gud – intellectual - lookin bunch of confused monkeys ...I must say....hheeeeheee...

All of a sudden struck me, “even he has it...would he be caught? Would he escape? Oh God!!!...save him!!!”
With all these thoughts storming up inside me, I hear a voice "ye parchi kiski hai???stand up!!!"....
"Oh Shit!!! He's caught kya??"
Ironically the voice came from my behind-right side, I turned my head in amazement, a guy got trapped. He was being
Interrogated, embarrassed, was being search over n over again......
"But What about this guy on my left!!!...he had a chit tooooo!!!!.......where's his????"
Suddenly that stern voice said again "ye kiski hai...batado apne aap!!! warna checking karte waqt pakde jaogeytho exam main baithne nahi dengey!!"
"Really!!!!.......????.....wht dignified liars!!!"

Anyways that other guy wasn’t caught becos the chit had answers relating to our (MCA's) Subject, and he was our junior.
"Ah!!!!!"
Now i realized what had happened...which made me chuckle!!!!....smirk....hun....How smart!!!! :)
This classmate of mine managed to throw his chit across the middle row to the other end of the class....hahahaaaa!!!
and poor chap, my junior ....."wo phass gaya....hahahahaaaaaa"

"Thank GOD!!!"

Now the guy I have been talking uptil now, hasn't been a cloooooseee frnd of mine, but i had known him, for 2 years almost.
We started our journey for mastering the COMPUTERS....on 2006-August.....and planning to end on 2009-July!!!
But fate had it own role to play.....out of the batch of 60 students, all are MASTERS IN COMPUTER APPLICATIONS...
except for one, who got the title for "MASTERS IN LIFE"!!!!!!

This one chap-dude, i am talking about is known an "ANKIT GOEL"!!!!!

He challenged Death, and had beaten it for 1 and a half years until on 3rd of jan...........the daemon took over him!!

ANKIT met with an accident on JUNE 9, 2008. Doctor's declared he won't survive, but that wasn’t "ANKIT"!!!....He FIGHTED BACK, with the will to survive, supported enormously selflessly by his 2 ANGEL'S ( maaa n dad ).....and his younger sis...
HATSS OFF TO THESE ANGEL'S........

He fought the battle hard for almost 1 and a 1/2 years....until....

GOD HAS YOU NOW ANKIT!!...YOU ARE WITH HIM NOW.... Dearie!!!!

I remember one of my friends telling me "When someone dies, he's closer to GOD now!! Up Above!! Whatever you would ask HIM he would give you priority than the ones who ask from down below here!!!”....so ANKIT, ask GOD to give maa and dad and sis all the strengths for them to move on with their lives!!!"

I know you would be well taken care of, after all u are in the midst of ANGELS now!!!!
THE ALMIGHTY sent you here on earth, with a purpose!! You have achieved that!!!...you reside in each one of our hearts and will always be!!!....A SMILING TALKATIVE HELPFUL FIGHTER STRUGGLER ANKIT!!!! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) GOD BLESS YOU!!!


WE ALL LOVE N MISS YOU!!! :) :) STAY HAPPY!!!



Gaily I lived as ease and nature taught,
And spent my little life without a thought,
And am amazed that Death, that tyrant grim,
Should think of me, who never thought of him.
~René Francois Regnier


I would request all whoever reads this post, to say a few words for him n his family n pray for them!!!......Ankit's watching us!!let him know how much we miss him!!!! :) :)