Wednesday, 22 September 2010

Women Drivers … Men Drivers!!??

This one post caches some of the most sincere and defying statements I ever have heard of. Well not once, not twice but a million zillion times, this particular topic has trickled me and has had a very bad, scandalizing effect on me!!


"Women are Bad, senseless Drivers"!!!!



How true is it?
Every time I hear this particular statement, I just can’t stop thinking about... The main agenda behind the statement! Why would a sensible man ever say that! I mean doesn’t he understand English!?

There is a wide difference between saying "All Women are bad drivers" or "A particular woman is a bad driver"!

How can ‘this’ category of MEN... generalize this Goliath subject?

It is rightly said, Some Men in this world could never ever bear the brunt of calling the women a superior sex even in one field!!! I mean it!

Delhi is a city with innumerable cabs and cabdrivers. Point to be noted here - All are men drivers! If anyone has seen the delhite’s driving, h/she will never ever forget it! :) Thats cent % true! ;)

Most (Almost all) of the accidents that occur in this city ... MEN Drivers! Still ‘these category’ of MEN have the nerves to talk wrongly about other sex's.

I myself have been driving on the roads of the city for almost 5 years now and I certainly feel hateful and scornful when guys make faces and give disgusting looks to me! They even point fingers! How sickening that could be?
I'll say this one Incident... Darn!! I actually parked my car aside and had a hearty laugh after this whole Incident!

Once while driving ... glued to my lane... I saw a bike walah who was just ahead of me slowly n slowly drifting towards my lane from his. I horned and he went back onto his lane... then while I was crossing him, he again started coming onto my lane... Slight difference else would definitely have had a minor accident there!!

That guy was either drunk or sleeping for sure! Anyhow I dint bother... I drove ahead!! After covering a short distance I saw the biker heading towards  me and drove right next to my car and gesticulated me to lower down the window pane. I did... he was like " Madam... Dhyaan se drive kia karo ... jaldi kis baat ki hai aapko"... I just gave him an ashtonished ‘ulta chor kotwal ko daante’ look and didn’t bother to listen to him. Hence just raced my car a bit!! ... I was wondering with what logic he came up to tell me this piece of crap!!!!!! I just smiled derisively...

This guy had all the freaking time in this world to actually race his bike - match up my car's speed - then with one hand on bike and other gesticulating me to lower down the window - shouting at the top of his voice just to tell me my "so-called" "never-happened" fault?????!!!

What on Earth did he think he was doing???

He was a fool and that too with an ultimate sense of humor!!!

The only question that blazed my mind at that moment was "what if I was a guy!?" This biker would have never even dared to step up to me to tell his piece of crap! He would have simply minded his own business! no reaction there!! Its become’s the Brother-Hood!

Also, Innumerable times, during parking at the malls or places like, the parking-guards ask me for the keys so that he can maneuver the car into the slot or back-out!! Why??? Who gives them the right? I can very well do it on my own!

How many times the truck-drivers switch the headlights of the truck on/off on seeing that the car ahead of them is being driven by a Lady! Shucks!!
How many times the guys call us names while driving by us?
How many times, while in a cab or any other car we (gurls) hear statements as ‘ye tho pakka ladki chala rahi hogi!’

I myself being a cautious driver, I know how gud I can drive!
I mean if a woman driver overtakes a man-driver's car ... shez eyed on, given disgusted and scornful looks! why? Had it been a Guy instead of a Woman... huh!

Well...this part especially goes out to the gurls/women ... never ever be scared or frightened or feel low on such comments! ...don’t loose your self-confidence ~ I know if you are a sensible driver you entirely understand what I mean here!

Anyways to sum it up, No wonder there are guys who are very good drivers whose maneuverability skills might be Excellent, but then there are women drivers too whose skill sets match those of Men!
On the contrary, there are guys who are senseless, wretched drivers and so there are women!

AND MEN MUST ACCEPT BOTH FACTS!! They Better Do!!!!

And I think that its high time when people/men realize & not for just the sake of ringing bells that women are at par with men in every field. The average Indian male still can’t accept the fact that ‘the second sex’ too has become educated.

If you can think on Modern Lines… well then apply them too in REAL Life for better!

This post wasn’t about debating on "Whose d Stronger Sex?" but on "We are all Humans and hence Be Sensible!! " :-)
The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence and educational advantages; the question is what he will do with the things he has. The moment a young man ceases to dream or regret strongly to his lack of opportunities and resolutely looks his conditions in the face, and resolves to change them, he lays the corner-stone of a solid and honorable success.



Hamilton Wright Mabie