Wednesday, 22 September 2010

Women Drivers … Men Drivers!!??

This one post caches some of the most sincere and defying statements I ever have heard of. Well not once, not twice but a million zillion times, this particular topic has trickled me and has had a very bad, scandalizing effect on me!!


"Women are Bad, senseless Drivers"!!!!



How true is it?
Every time I hear this particular statement, I just can’t stop thinking about... The main agenda behind the statement! Why would a sensible man ever say that! I mean doesn’t he understand English!?

There is a wide difference between saying "All Women are bad drivers" or "A particular woman is a bad driver"!

How can ‘this’ category of MEN... generalize this Goliath subject?

It is rightly said, Some Men in this world could never ever bear the brunt of calling the women a superior sex even in one field!!! I mean it!

Delhi is a city with innumerable cabs and cabdrivers. Point to be noted here - All are men drivers! If anyone has seen the delhite’s driving, h/she will never ever forget it! :) Thats cent % true! ;)

Most (Almost all) of the accidents that occur in this city ... MEN Drivers! Still ‘these category’ of MEN have the nerves to talk wrongly about other sex's.

I myself have been driving on the roads of the city for almost 5 years now and I certainly feel hateful and scornful when guys make faces and give disgusting looks to me! They even point fingers! How sickening that could be?
I'll say this one Incident... Darn!! I actually parked my car aside and had a hearty laugh after this whole Incident!

Once while driving ... glued to my lane... I saw a bike walah who was just ahead of me slowly n slowly drifting towards my lane from his. I horned and he went back onto his lane... then while I was crossing him, he again started coming onto my lane... Slight difference else would definitely have had a minor accident there!!

That guy was either drunk or sleeping for sure! Anyhow I dint bother... I drove ahead!! After covering a short distance I saw the biker heading towards  me and drove right next to my car and gesticulated me to lower down the window pane. I did... he was like " Madam... Dhyaan se drive kia karo ... jaldi kis baat ki hai aapko"... I just gave him an ashtonished ‘ulta chor kotwal ko daante’ look and didn’t bother to listen to him. Hence just raced my car a bit!! ... I was wondering with what logic he came up to tell me this piece of crap!!!!!! I just smiled derisively...

This guy had all the freaking time in this world to actually race his bike - match up my car's speed - then with one hand on bike and other gesticulating me to lower down the window - shouting at the top of his voice just to tell me my "so-called" "never-happened" fault?????!!!

What on Earth did he think he was doing???

He was a fool and that too with an ultimate sense of humor!!!

The only question that blazed my mind at that moment was "what if I was a guy!?" This biker would have never even dared to step up to me to tell his piece of crap! He would have simply minded his own business! no reaction there!! Its become’s the Brother-Hood!

Also, Innumerable times, during parking at the malls or places like, the parking-guards ask me for the keys so that he can maneuver the car into the slot or back-out!! Why??? Who gives them the right? I can very well do it on my own!

How many times the truck-drivers switch the headlights of the truck on/off on seeing that the car ahead of them is being driven by a Lady! Shucks!!
How many times the guys call us names while driving by us?
How many times, while in a cab or any other car we (gurls) hear statements as ‘ye tho pakka ladki chala rahi hogi!’

I myself being a cautious driver, I know how gud I can drive!
I mean if a woman driver overtakes a man-driver's car ... shez eyed on, given disgusted and scornful looks! why? Had it been a Guy instead of a Woman... huh!

Well...this part especially goes out to the gurls/women ... never ever be scared or frightened or feel low on such comments! ...don’t loose your self-confidence ~ I know if you are a sensible driver you entirely understand what I mean here!

Anyways to sum it up, No wonder there are guys who are very good drivers whose maneuverability skills might be Excellent, but then there are women drivers too whose skill sets match those of Men!
On the contrary, there are guys who are senseless, wretched drivers and so there are women!

AND MEN MUST ACCEPT BOTH FACTS!! They Better Do!!!!

And I think that its high time when people/men realize & not for just the sake of ringing bells that women are at par with men in every field. The average Indian male still can’t accept the fact that ‘the second sex’ too has become educated.

If you can think on Modern Lines… well then apply them too in REAL Life for better!

This post wasn’t about debating on "Whose d Stronger Sex?" but on "We are all Humans and hence Be Sensible!! " :-)

Tuesday, 22 June 2010

Tum aur Main ..





tum raag aur main sur
tum dhadkan aur main sansein
tum awaaz aur main bol
tum khuda aur main ek rasool
tum chandrama aur main chandani
tum jal aur main sheetalta
tum sanjeev aur main supriya
tum sajan aur main sajani
tum suman aur main sudha
tum tarana aur main saaz
tum neend aur main sukoon
tum sher aur main ghazal
tum satyajit aur main satya
tum mere aur main tumhari
tum jugnu aur main roshni
tum raat aur main swadha
tum swaha aur main suvimal
tum swapn aur main swapnil
tum samundar aur main nadi
tum vyom aur main nakshatra
tum paed aur main chhaya
tum lal aur main shwet
tum chah aur main tumhari chahat
tum chumban aur main ehsaas
tum sindoor aur main rishta
tum main aur main tum



[ rasool - angel; sanjeev- loved; supriya-much loved; suman-phool; sudha-nectar;
satyajit-person married to truth; swadha-beauty; swaha-wife of agni(pure);
suvimal-purity; vyom-sky ]

[Few lines of this were written by me during schooltimes, just added few more now :) ]



Thursday, 17 June 2010

Carom ..



Carom (4 pockets + coins ( x black + x white) + 1 Queen + 3 Players + 1 YOU)

Last year on the occasion of "The Good Winning over the Evil/Bad" i.e. Diwali, my company organized Sport events - Carom, TT, Cards etc.

CAROM BEING MY FAVOURITE INDOOR SPORT, I nominated myself for the Doubles!

My partner and me (Doubles) were made to play with various contenders (teams), Well did reach the Semi-Finals.. yayy!


I realized something!

All the teams I was playing with, In the END had the same strategy as We had - To Win The Game!

But.. Difference lie when it came to "How to Win the Game"!!

My Partner and I intended to get as many coins into the pockets as we can. Simple eh!

But there were few teams which had a different way of playing the Game (which truly speakin I never thought of)

These teams "How to Win the Game" was based on the "Architecture of blocking" as many pockets as they can with their coins so that the other team doesn't get a pocket free to Goal/ even to strike !! .... Amazing!

[For those who are unaware of the second concept: well its like blocking the surrounding space of the crease (2 parallel lines) from where you take the strike!!... so that you are left with no space to Actually take the STRIKE!! ... AND also blocking the surroundings of the pockets ..so that even if the STRIKER manages to take a STRIKE, it doesn’t end up the in the pocket ...WORST.. The Other Team’s coin may end up in the pocket!! ahhh... I Hate that!! :( ]

Well, to first reaction …....awwwww .. watt the hell - I Was Stunned .... then Disturbed ... and then Amazed .... and then finally Chuckled!!

Gosh!!
If they knew the ART of blocking ....then why not ART of Goaling?? Anyhow ..skills are required in either cases! Rgt!??

Anyways, I loved this new ART!! ... naayyy ...for those who think its unfair..Well I dont think so!

Just the way ... Instant Coffee / Decoction Coffee ...end product remains same! How to make ..Different! (Tastes Different too :P)

Well..My Take..



The one's who aim only on Goaling END up the most skilled!!
How ?
Well this set of people have a clear GOAL/OBJECT in the GAME i.e THE GAME.

Face hurdles - attempt to clear the hurdles - failures seen in clearing the hurdles - sometimes succeed -sometimes don't - but in the end.... They have acquired "THE ART"

ART of " Playing "!

Now substitute

CaROm bOaRd = LiFE
pOCkETS = OuR GoAlS
QUeEn = lUcK
CoInS = ThE DeCiSiOnS We tAke
cOiNs BlOckiNg = OtHeR's DeCiSiOnS
STriKeRs = oNE yOu n oThErS ....jUsT OtHeRs!!

Friday, 7 May 2010

Kyun……....


Koun hun main?
Kyun hun main?
Kya hai meri pehchaan……………………………...


Kyun mujhe tumhara hi intezaar hai?

Kyun tum mere har soch ki shuruat ho
Kyun tum mere khwabon main bas jatey ho
Kyun tum meri rooh main samaye huye ho
Kyun tum mujhe madhosh kar jatey ho
Kyun tum meri dhadkan bane hue ho
Kyun tum meri sanson ko uljha jate ho

Kyun main tumhe hi itna chahun?

Kyun tum mujhe mere itne kareeb lagte ho
Kabhi chedh jatey ho, kabhi ojhal ho jate ho
Kabhi meri dabi muskurahat ban jate ho
Kabhi dil main meethey dard de jate ho
Kabhi aankhon main nami bankar thehar jatey ho
tho kabhi sailaab bankar beh jate ho
Kabhi cheekh banke nikal aate ho
tho kabhi bin-ashq aankhon main sui-si-chuban de jate ho...

Kyun tum meri aadat ban gaye ho?

Kyun tum mujhe dikhai nahi dete
Kyun tum mujhe tadpate ho
Kyun tum mere har khayal main ho
Kyun tum hi meri pehli yaad ho
Kyun tum hi meri jeene ki chah ho

Koun ho tum? Kyun tum meri hasrat ho?

Kyun tumhe chune ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhe paane ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare bahon main bikhar jane ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare kandhe sir rakhe sone ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhe mehsoos karne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhari aankhon main zindagi guzarne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare saamne dabe raaz kholne ka mann kare ..
Kyun ye dil tumhare chumban ka pyaasa rahe ..
Kyun dil aaghosh main tumhari rone ko tarasa kare ..
Kyun tumhare bahon main dum todne ka mann kare ..
Kyun tumhare ishq main fanaa hone ko mann kare?

Kyuuuuun………

Koun ho tum? kyun ho tum?
Kyun tum meri zindagi bane hue ho?
Kyun tum mujhse mujhe loot rahe ho?
Kya mera koi astitv nahi?
Kya meri koi pehchaan nahi???

ya.....


KYA "TUM" HI MERI PEHCHAAN HO?!!

Tum hi meri har soch ka anth ho!


Tuesday, 27 April 2010

Aandhi ...





Kyun dil main reh-reh kar ik kook si uthti hai
ye kiski kami hai jo humne loot-ti rehti hai
saans leti hun tho zakhmo ko hawa lagti hai
aankhon se baraste ashq un zakhmo ko bharne nahi deti hai

hansi gunaah si lagti hai
Dard use Qusoor-waar tehrati hai

kaisa ye aalam hai
kaisi ye hayaat hai
har soch par ek sawaal hai..
sawaalon ke aandhi main doobi har raat hai….

Aisi bebasi ke aalam mai
kaise khudh par aitbaar karen..
kahan jayen..
fariyaad karen bhi tho kisse karen...

Darr lagta hai ab khudh se
jab tanha paate hain khudh ko
Is gham-zadah halaat main
kahin kho na baithen hum khudh ko....

The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence and educational advantages; the question is what he will do with the things he has. The moment a young man ceases to dream or regret strongly to his lack of opportunities and resolutely looks his conditions in the face, and resolves to change them, he lays the corner-stone of a solid and honorable success.



Hamilton Wright Mabie